You know what time of year it is time for cozy sweaters, holiday music, and those little moments where we show the people we love just how much they mean to us.
And for those of us on this incredible journey of building a family if you’re an intended parent or a surrogate it can feel extra meaningful to find a gift.
Don’t get me wrong there’s no rule that says you have to give a gift during this process. But if you’re anything like me, you probably don’t mind having an excuse to do something thoughtful for someone special.
So if you’re looking for ideas to celebrate your surrogate or intended parents in a way that feels personal and heartfelt, I’ve got you covered.
I’ve put together a few fun and meaningful suggestions these are the kinds of gifts that make people smile.
Let’s talk about showing some love to the superhero in your life your surrogate. Seriously, she’s carrying a whole human (or maybe two, if you’re really lucky) and making it look easy.
A little pampering is more than deserved it’s practically mandatory.
A spa day or a full-body massage. I mean, who wouldn’t want to unwind with some professional TLC after all that hard work?
If you’re not sure where to book one near her, no worries. You can DIY your own version of a spa experience by putting together a pampering gift basket.
Think lotions, face masks, cozy socks, and maybe even a puzzle book or two for some chill time. Bonus points if you throw in her favourite snacks because chocolate fixes everything.
If you’re leaning toward something simpler but still thoughtful, Cafè Press has some cute options that strike the perfect balance between practical and fun. It’s a great way to give her something she’ll actually use while reminding her how amazing she is.
Now, let’s flip the script and talk about gifts for the intended parents, they’re probably over-the-moon excited but also slightly overwhelmed by everything that comes with welcoming a new baby.
A thoughtful gift can go a long way in making them feel supported (and maybe even a little spoiled).
If they celebrate Christmas, a personalized ornament is such a sweet idea. You can find ones specifically for expecting parents, or if you’re feeling crafty, make your own!
I’m obsessed with the idea of gifting a sonogram ornament it’s sentimental, unique, and perfect for IPs who live far away or haven’t been able to be at every appointment.
It’s like giving them a tiny keepsake of this incredible journey.
Another idea? Go straight for the baby goodies. Think about something you swore by when raising your own kids or something you wish you’d had.
Teethers, baby lotions, a sound machine, or even a soft night light can be practical yet meaningful gifts.
The personal touch shows you’ve put thought into what might make their parenting journey a little easier.
And speaking of memories, how about a baby book? New parents are notorious for snapping pics and documenting every little milestone, so giving them a beautiful place to record all those firsts is always a win.
No matter what you pick, something sentimental, something practical, or something that makes them laugh it’s going to mean the world because it’s coming from you.
You don’t have to overthink it or stress about finding the “perfect” thing. Just choose something that feels sincere, a little silly, super sweet, or somewhere in between.
Because the fact that you’re even putting thought into this shows how much you care. And that’s what truly matters. So go ahead, and give yourself a pat on the back you’re doing great.
Short on time? Here’s a quick rundown:
Gift-giving isn’t about perfection it’s about connection. If you’re honouring your surrogate or your intended parents, the best gifts come from the heart.
I know firsthand how overwhelming this journey can feel, but these little gestures? They matter. They remind everyone involved that they’re seen, appreciated, and loved.
Here’s my advice: Don’t stress too much about finding “the thing.” Instead, think about what makes the person smile. Do they love cozy nights? A spa kit might be perfect.
Are they sentimental? A custom ornament or baby book could bring tears to their eyes (happy ones, of course).
And if you’re still stuck? Ask yourself, “What would make me feel cared for?” Chances are, it’ll resonate with them too.
One last thing I always tell my readers this: Building a family, no matter how you do it, is a team effort. Celebrating the people who are part of that journey is just as important as the destination.
So whether you’re gifting something big or small, remember that your thoughtfulness speaks volumes.
If you’re looking for more tips on parenting, surrogacy, or just life as a gay dad navigating it all, head over to austinplease.com. It’s my little corner of the internet where I share stories, advice, and way too many dad jokes. You’re always welcome there.
Until next time, keep loving, keep laughing, and keep celebrating the beautiful chaos of family life.
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